Now... I had no real issue letting them in. I didn't say a single word to either of them. I only touched them both once to put the handstamp on their wrist. I even went so far as to ensure that I wasn't posted inside while they were in the building specifically so I didn't have to deal with -any- sort of drama from this. What it all amounts to is that I went to a fairly large amount of effort to treat then like I treat everyone who goes ther that I don't know, and even some extra by avoiding being inside. Keep in mind through all of this that I had been told that if I felt it would be a personal issue that I simply should not let her in to start with.
There's a level of maturity that I require from people that want to interact with me. Until she starts displaying it, she remains written off.